Love, Sex and Relationships

Hey there everyone, I think the above topic, of love, sex and relationships, is a popular one not just with women of all ages, but with men as well. And ever since I was bitten by the love bug for the first time, I have been fascinated to hear what people have to say about it and to read books on this subject matter. And now,


The Eternal Question – Is there a Soulmate for each of us?


Well, Arielle Ford certainly thinks so. Her book The Soulmate Secret actually provides a step-by-step guide to manifest the love of your life using the law of attraction. It is really an inspiring and encouraging read, not just for me, but also for USA Today as well as other amazing authors like Jack Canfield (Chicken Soup for the Soul) and Marci Shimoff (Love for No Reason).

But what is a soulmate to you? Thomas Moore gives his interpretation below:

“A soulmate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communication and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life.”

– Thomas Moore

Meanwhile, this is what Arielle Ford has to say:

“A soulmate is someone with whom you share a deep and profound connection and feel that you can be completely yourself. It’s someone whom you love unconditionally and who loves you unconditionally. Without trying to sound too sentimental, a soulmate is someone who ‘completes’ you.”

– Arielle Ford

Personally, I do believe in the concept of soulmate. So if you have that nagging feeling that the person you’re currently with right now is not the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life with, then I would suggest that you keep looking.


Tantric: the Next Frontier?


By the way, have you heard of tantric sex? I first came into contact with this practice/way of life a few years back and I was immediately hooked! Apparently the goal is to channel all the sexual energy that would normally leave your body during an orgasm, back into yourself. It focuses on prolonging the sexual experience, hence increasing potent sexual energy as well as intimacy with your lover. Pretty cool, huh? And as they say, sexual energy is one of the most powerful ingredients for perfect health.

This is an exciting concept for me too, and for sure I am going to be doing more research on this topic in the coming months.

Learn a bit about tantric massage.


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What is Tantric Massage About?

Good morning people, this is Clark here from Self Help Books. What is tantric massage about? What an exciting question! Let me first give you an introduction to tantra or tantric massage, then at the end of the page I’ll share about where you can learn tantra massage.


Tantra Massage!!


Tantric massage is a form of erotic massage where your entire body, including your intimate areas, is massaged.

Tantric yoga, tantric sex, tantric massage and tantric meditation are the different types of tantra practiced today. Tantric massage includes elements from yoga, bioenergetics and sexual therapy. According to the Tantric Massage Association, it was developed in the 1980s by Andro Andreas Rothe, founder of Diamond Lotus Tantra Lounge, the first tantra institute in Germany.

Although tantric massage is a very sensual massage, it does not require any kind of sexual exchange. Any orgasms achieved can be considered a bonus.

TANTRA is a healing technique formed many centuries ago. It was formulated to release the natural energy in the body to deal with physical and emotional trauma.

Tantric MASSAGE was created from the belief that sexually happy individuals are healthier in life.

This type of massage is a great stress buster. For many individuals, tantric massage is the best way to relax, and it helps them achieve their goals!

In tantric massage, the person receiving the massage allows the other person to have full control over their body. In most cases, this massage takes place between individuals who are in a close relationship, but a trained professional can also perform this massage on you.

Some individuals may showcase or experience discomfort since tantric massage is a highly sensual interaction. However, if you completely trust the other person then you will not feel uncomfortable. You will feel completely relaxed, but still be wide awake. Your energy flow is stimulated and senses awakened. You’ll be living life in the

Tantric massage will arouse deep, sensual feelings, and an overall pleasurable experience, within you. For some, tantric massage is one of the best kinds of massage that exist in our society today.

German courts have attempted to make tantric massage a taxable erotic massage.


Learn Tantric Massage!!!


If you don’t mind spending a little bit to provide pleasure to your partner, check out my brief introduction of Psalm Isadora’s Multi Orgasmic Tantra Massage Course for Men, Women and Couples, and then the actual course itself to learn a few tantric massage techniques.

Psalm Isadora is a highly sought after sex and relationship expert who specializes in women’s health and empowerment, as well as modern sexual education for adults.

Let her help you pleasure your partner.


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Psalm Isadora TANTRA Massage course

Hey guys and girls, Clark here from Self Help Books. Let’s talk about the Psalm Isadora Tantra MASSAGE course today.

Tantra or tantric massage was created from the belief that if you are sexually happy and relaxed then your health will benefit. The massage itself does not aim to cause orgasms – orgasms are bonuses. Tantric massage doesn’t involve penetrative sex, but it does involve full on touching of the organs. Therefore you will not find it offered in an ordinary spa.

According to Tantric ideals, your entire body will be massaged, including those intimate areas which are an important source of joy in life. A Tantric massage will make physical boundaries dissolve, time disappear, worries and problems no longer seem important, or are forgotten altogether.


What’s in it? The Course Features…


Please see below for a short overview of the course features:

Lesson 1: The Heart Opener Massage for Women

Discover in this video lesson how to perform an erotic massage for women focusing on the heart and breasts. Understand how to tease ecstasy and sexual pleasure from the nipples and transfer it to the rest of the body. Connect to your body and fully let go and get away from self-judgement.

Lesson 2: The Yoni Genital Massage for Women

An advanced lesson on understanding the ancient Yoni massage and how to fully experience whole-body orgasms. Fully understand the Yoni Puja, a sacred practice that will enhance sexual satisfaction. Have full-body orgasms by releasing the energy and pleasure from the clitoris to the rest of the body. Have the best self-stimulated orgasm by understanding the connection between anticipation, dopamine release and the final climax.

Lesson 3: The Heart Opener Massage for Couples

Perform the orgasmic breast massage as a form of powerful foreplay that will link you and your partner in ecstasy. Have powerful orgasms by dropping the expectation of it. Slow down your breathing to enhance and lengthen the pleasure your body will feel. Increase intimacy between you and your partner through physical touch and mental connection. ‘Tease’ and manipulate the sexual energy and transfer it throughout the whole body.

Lesson 4: The Yoni Genital Massage for Couples

Read a woman’s body and respond with the right touch and stimulation. Sync and slow down the breath in order to lengthen the pleasure of anticipation and increase the waves of sexual bliss. Build anticipation throughout the woman’s body with just the right amount of touch, squeeze, and pressure. Activate ‘double sensation’ by massaging both the nipples and the clitoris at the right time.

Lesson 5: Five Tantric Touches for the Nipples

The nipples, when touched just right, offer exponential orgasmic waves. Learn how to mix and use all five touches for enhanced waves of pleasure.

Lesson 6: Five Tantric Touches for the Clitoris & G-spot

Understand the variety of ways the clitoris and G-spot can be manipulated for enhanced pleasure. Learn the “Circling” technique, the “Push + Pull” technique, the “Tugging + Rolling” technique and the “Turning + Tapping” technique. Learn how to find and stimulate the G-spot, plus how to vary your speed, pressure, and touch to further intensify pleasure.


PSALM Isadora


“I came from a very disempowered and shut-down place around my sexuality and femininity, being taught that it wasn’t safe to be sexual. I grew up in a very religious environment, endured years of sexual trauma and so my sexuality had been suppressed and repressed for years… which catapulted me into a downward spiral of anxiety and even depression.”

“Until I decided to travel to India in 2007 where I found deep ‘sexual healing’ in Tantra and yoga. I was even teaching yoga to sex-trafficked women in the red light district of Calcutta and my volunteer work with these young prostitutes eventually became part of a documentary titled Shakti.”

“It’s my life’s mission to help you to be happy and healthy with your sexuality and relationships.”

Psalm Isadora is a highly sought after sex and relationship expert who specializes in women’s health and empowerment, as well as modern sexual education for adults.

Psalm is here to help you explore your sexuality, whether one-on-one, through one of her popular live events/workshops, or in the privacy of your own home with her online courses.


Bring More Pleasure Into Your Existence Today!!


Click here now, and check out Psalm Isadora’s Tantra Massage Course. Also, be sure to read the delicious stories from students who mastered Psalm’s trainings.

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Psalm Isadora’s Death – A remembrance

Hey what’s up everyone, this is Clark here. I am dedicating this article to the late Psalm Isadora, who sadly passed away in March 2017 at the age of 41. Isadora is a tantra, sex and relationship expert who had a huge following prior to her untimely death. Needless to say, Psalm Isadora’s death came as a shock to many of her fans.


Officially Ruled a Suicide, but…


Isadora’s death has been officially ruled a suicide, but investigations into the state of affairs leading up to it are still ongoing.

A radiant beauty, some people are not aware of her dark past, in which she had to escape the Christian cult that she was born into, and the father who she said molested her. She then went on a dangerous drug and sex-fueled road.

“I used anything I could to escape the pain but I still kept my secret, I still protected my abuser. I was still afraid of being judged, I was afraid if I told people, no one would love me because I was too broken and wounded.”

“I had sex with men, I had sex with women, I had sex with Hollywood. I’m not mad at it except it wasn’t empowered. Sex was like my heroin.”

She turned her life around when she traveled to India in 2007, where she found sexual healing in Shakti Tantra Yoga – ancient teachings on feminine and sexual energy. She then helped sex-trafficked women in the red light district of Calcutta and her volunteer work with them eventually became part of a documentary titled Shakti.

She built a career as a tantra, sex and relationship expert who is widely known for having founded the global sex coaching program Urban Kama Sutra. She has also appeared before as a featured expert on the reality series Cougar Club on Playboy TV and Modern Sex on Buzzfeed. Prior to her death, she had built a multi-million dollar business including online courses, live events and TV shows geared towards helping people to be happy and healthy with their sexuality and relationships.

Her death obviously came as a shock to her followers who thought that she had overcome her demons. There are still many who couldn’t imagine how she can be driven to such lengths. Some think that she was killed due to her outspoken and controversial opinions.

But according to her long-time friend Monique Caulfield, Isadora has struggled most of her life with bipolar disorder which causes depression, and this was potentially made worse by the potential side effects (depression and suicidal ideation) of her stopping the prescription medication Xanax, which she had been using for some time to treat insomnia.


My Take and Tribute


I cannot confirm or deny whether she took her own life. Due to the many problems that she had to face, she might have. Depression is something that only those who experience it themselves can know what it is like. If she indeed committed suicide then I think everybody should just say a prayer and wish her the best, wherever she is right now. Her message of female empowerment and not to be afraid of your own sexuality is something that I truly believe in. So let’s fully enjoy the life well-lived, as well as the legacy that she has left to us all.

A beginner’s guide to TANTRA


a-beginners-guide-to-tantra-2Mention tantra, and you would probably imagine exotic lovemaking for hours to sitar music and on an oriental rug. However, tantra actually covers all aspects of life, including health, belief and philosophy. Tantric sex is the sexual side of tantra, but people have come to understand the two terms as synonymous.

Read on for a beginner’s guide to tantra (including tantric sex).


Tantra is a Way of Life


Tantra is a set of spiritual beliefs about one’s self and the universe, and practices for integrating the mind, body and soul, that originated in India over 2000 years ago. People who practice Tantra are called Tantrikas.

Tantrikas will tell you that love is at the very heart of Tantra. The practices work to create conditions necessary for love to flourish and endure. They quiet the mind, open your awareness to sensation, raise your energy vibration, and help you cultivate a sacred attitude towards yourself, others and events in your life. At the end of a practice, if done correctly, you should be filled with bliss and full of vibrant energy. Doing Tantric practices lets you connect with what is present and what you want to create in your life. When you achieve states of presence, energy flow, relaxation, harmony, and connection, love emerges and opens the heart.


It is said that Tantra assists you in realizing your full potential as a human being. You will transform your life and discover bliss. Tantric principles and practices can be applied to all areas of life, including your health and emotional well-being, sex and relationships, and spirituality.

The benefits of Tantric practices include terrific sexual fulfillment, deeper connection and intimacy in your relationships, emotional harmony and balance, endless health and vitality, enhanced intuition + inspiration, boundless love, and playful, ecstatic awareness.


And Now We Come to Tantric Sex


Tantric sex is about Consciousness. For most people the focus during sex is on the end goal – the orgasm. We get so lost in the rush to get there that we lose out on the pleasure of the journey. The idea of Tantra is simply to be present with your partner, to acknowledge each other and the love you share.

Here is a simple tantric “sexercise”:

1) Clothes off, begin by sitting on his lap, facing him, and wrapping your legs around his waist. Gaze into each other’s eyes. In each session, focus on one (and only one) of your partner’s eyes. It is often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, thus looking into your partner’s eyes and him looking into yours gives you both the opportunity to share a soul connection, to go beyond the physical into something deep and special.

a-beginners-guide-to-tantra2) Next, synchronize your breathing. Breathe in together, exhale together. Do this for at least 5 minutes.

3) Next, move into “breath exchange”. You inhale when he exhales, and exhale when he inhales, as though you’re breathing each other in. Do this for at least 10 minutes.

4) Move into kissing and caressing. In time, begin slow intercourse, but continue caressing and kissing. Keep eye contact. As you become more proficient, you may develop the ability for prolonged orgasm, where you remain at the peak of ecstatic pleasure without climaxing. There are all the feelings of a typical orgasm, but it lasts for many minutes (or even hours). This leads to profound sexual and emotional merging.

Having a reverence for your partner is at the core of Tantric sex. Of course it also enables you to reach new heights of sexual pleasure and even tap your heightened sexual energy for creative use in other areas of your life.

A Final Word..


Cultivating states of presence, energy flow, relaxation, harmony, and connection is not always easy. A lifetime of negative experiences has gradually limited our ability to be present and to love fully and freely. In a gentle yet powerful way, Tantric practices break up and wash away residues of our past that hold us back from unlimited love and intimacy.

The wonderful world of Tantra offers us a way of life, of love, and of having amazing sex. Above all else, the goal of any Tantric experience is love, joy and inspiration.

P.S. If you are seriously keen to learn more tantra, my recommendation is Psalm Isadora’s Tantra for Beginners. Psalm is a highly sought after Tantra, sex and relationship, and trauma expert who has reached over 66 million homes as the star of Playboy TV’s reality show Cougar Club. As a child, Psalm went through years of sexual trauma, which led her into a downward spiral of anxiety and depression. At some point it was so bad she had gained 30 pounds, was a single mom and had no drive or energy to do anything with her life. She decided to travel to India in 2007, where she found deep “sexual healing” in Tantra and yoga. She now works to teach tens of thousands of people across the world how to truly live a fiercely authentic and happy life by reclaiming their sexuality.



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The Soulmate Secret, by Arielle Ford – Manifesting love into your life with the Law of Attraction


Book, Author: The Soulmate Secret, by Arielle Ford
Who is it for:
For those looking for their soulmate
Cheapest place to buy:
Price: $9.99 onwards
90 out of 100 (Highly recommended!)


The Soulmate Secret, by Arielle Ford guides you in letting go of past hurts and manifesting love into your life today. Written in a way that is practical, inspiring and hopeful, The Soulmate Secret will guide you in finding your One.

Do you believe in Soulmates?


If you do not believe in the idea of a soulmate, or you think attracting the perfect person into your life is utter nonsense, then this book is for you!

A soulmate is “someone with whom you share a deep and profound connection and feel that you can completely be yourself. Someone you love unconditionally, and who loves you unconditionally, and when you look into their eyes you have the experience of being at home.”

In The Soulmate Secret, Arielle Ford, the woman who helped launch the careers of Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsch and Jack Canfield, shows you how to use the law of attraction to deliver your soulmate… to your front doorstep.

Right off the bat this book asks that you accept full responsibility for being ‘unlucky’ in love thus far. That you and your current state of mind is the barrier that is stopping your soulmate from showing up. There is a reason you keep attracting the wrong person. Find out why and then stop doing it.

What’s Inside This Book


A most practical read, this book suggests a host of activities to get you into relationship shape, including feng shui tips!

For example, this book teaches you to clear out the clutter. Then you might want to clear the energy of past loves from your home, using the Native American technique called smudging. Next you want to physically create space – for instance, making sure that the nightstand on ‘their’ side of the bed is completely empty. This sends a message to the Universe that you literally have space in your life for another. Throw away those sheets that are still around from a few relationships ago. Make a vision board of what you want your soulmate to be like. Many more.

the-soulmate-secret-by-arielle-ford-2But the most interesting and important of all is the series of Feelingizations™ exercises. They are better known as visualizations, but the author has renamed them Feelingizations™, based on the principle that it is the feeling and not the image that holds the power to attract. Seeing the outcome you want doesn’t work without strong emotions behind them. If the act of visualizing your desire brings up more feelings of anxiety, and frustration of not having it than it does of joyful anticipation, then it will not happen. In order to manifest our desire we need to feel that what we have asked for is already ours. You can try out some Feelingizations™ for free at

Arguably, the most hopeful part of the book is the “love stories” of people who followed some of the steps recommended in the book and found their soulmate. We’ve got people meeting on planes, in gyms, in snowstorms… One man woke up one morning with a random phone number running through his head – and when he called it was a woman living 50 miles away. They met for coffee and have been together ever since.

Get it at Amazon


Amazon is one of the largest retailers in the world and therefore able to offer competitive pricing and even used books. The last time I checked, the Kindle edition is $9.99 (Amazon provides free Kindle reading apps), the paperback is $12.17 and the hardcover $23.99. Used books will be cheaper.

In Conclusion…


This book is perfect for those who are ready for a loving yet passionate lasting relationship. It’s pretty much a step-by-step guide to finding your own happily ever after… The Soulmate Secret may just be the antidote to your soulmate-less life that you’ve been looking for.

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