“How to Transform Sexual Energy” will be the third and last of my 3-part series about sexual energy. You can find the links to the first and second part at the bottom of this page.
In the first part – what is sexual energy? – I wrote that the intensity of sexual energy or sexual desire cannot be matched by any other emotion known to man, and that no other force has the capacity to inject the same amount of courage, motivation and creativity or imagination as sexual energy.
Sexual activity, including masturbation, is one of the ways in which you could channel this energy. In fact, most people are quite helpless when faced with a surge of sexual energy in them. Most people find it DIFFICULT to contain such an intense emotion and it is a relief to release it through a sexual activity.
But just like other forms of energy, sexual energy too can be transmuted and used for other purposes apart from sex. It can be channeled into creative pursuits like painting, music, writing, drawing, etc, and enhancing your well-being.
But first, how do you contain it?
Before you can channel this energy for other purposes, you need to be able to contain it in your being and not let it consume/control you. Under the influence of a strong sex drive, many people have committed adultery and even violence in the heat of the moment only to regret their actions later.
I’m not saying that engaging in sexual activities is bad. Sex is nice:), and it comes with numerous health benefits. But overindulgence in sexual activities means that you are not realizing the full potential of this energy, and that you are simply being dragged around by your sexual desire.
No doubt it is not easy to resist the pull of your sex drive. One thing to remember is that you should not try to SUPPRESS your sexual energy, because this will only create resistance to the natural flow of life energy in you.
The next time you feel a surge of sexual desire in you, just be aware and stay with it without being dragged into your immediate need to expel it via a sexual activity. Feel the energy as it courses through your body, feel the pulsating strength of it. Just staying in a space of awareness of this energy is how you can contain it in your being and not let it control you.
How to Channel Sexual Energy into Creativity and Well-being
Simply containing your sexual energy in you automatically channels it into other outlets. For instance, sexual energy is said to have immense healing powers and the capacity to revitalize the organs in your body.
Sexual energy also prevents thoughts of despair or inadequacy. When you contain your sexual energy instead of expelling it, it seems to automatically channel into creative actions – dissolving resistances such as fears or phobias, and providing you the courage, motivation and creativity in your pursuit.
Containing this energy creates an aura around you, which can be sensed by the people in your presence as a MAGNETIC quality in your personality, and that attracts the opposite sex.
Last but not least, any thought held in the presence of powerful sexual energy is said to attract more strongly than in the presence of other emotions, including love.
According to Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich, the human mind responds to certain stimuli, through which it may be ‘keyed up’ to high rates of vibration. The stimulus to which the mind responds most freely is the desire for sex expression. In other words, sexual energy is the highest form of transmuted creative energy.
Try this exercise: Think about things that get you aroused for about 5 minutes. Then, imagine your ideal self, the goals you wish to accomplish, the type of life you’d like to lead. If you do this at night, go to sleep while maintaining positive imagery and visualizing your best self.
And thus ends my series about sexual energy. If you like it, do share with (adult) friends and family members!! And if you have any questions or comments regarding this topic, please let me know in the comment box below and I will get back to you as soon as I can!
Read the first part of this series: What is SEXUAL ENERGY?
Read the second part of this series: How to Build Up Sexual Energy
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