Dear all, a very good day to you. I’m Clark, and here on this page I am going to share with you the third part of my “Love Series”. This series is where I share my take on love, soulmates and relationships in general. As you can see, our topic today is (how to) attract your soulmate fast! Just like the previous two parts, I will first share with you my take below, and then you can leave any questions or comments that you might have at the bottom of this page. (By the way, here’s part 2 if you missed it)
Clearing your “Soulmate Blocks”
Before you can attract your soulmate, you must clear any blocks that you currently have that is preventing him or her from coming to you. In other words, you have to be ready for him/her.
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
The most important belief you must have is the belief that love can be great, and that you deserve Great Love. Growing up, our perception has been shaped by the relationships we see around us. If our parents do not respect each other, then we might have the belief now that it is normal not to respect and not to get respect from our partner. Our “love or soulmate blocks” could then be made worse after going through a few or many bad or even average relationships. You start to think that you’re too old, too heavy, too successful, not successful enough, too good looking, not good looking enough, and on and on. You start to believe that there are no more good people out there. You think your chance has passed. Basically you stop believing that love can be wonderful, or you believe that Wonderful Love is not for you.
When you clear these love blocks, then you are finally ready for your soulmate. But how?
Using (or rather, letting) the Law of Attraction do its job
Law of Attraction states that we draw to ourselves the people, resources, events and circumstances that match our energy or vibration. You will only attract a partner who is at the same vibrational level as you are. So if you are angry and frustrated all the time, guess what kind of partner you will attract?
A negative belief (which is borne of a negative thought that you think and then reinforce over and over) such as the ones above lowers your vibration. Thus, you need to begin looking for evidence that you are worthy of your soulmate right now.
But how can you reverse years of negative mind programming? The good news is it can be done, and in a much shorter period of time than you would expect (so if you think you’ve had a negative belief for a few years now, it doesn’t have to take you a few years to turn it around, don’t ask why). As long as you first decide to accept that this works and that you will do it until you succeed.
Then, whenever you catch yourself having a negative thought about your love life (which is just a product of your existing negative beliefs) just shift your attention to something about yourself and your life that pleases you. You will find that you immediately feel better about yourself. Stay there for as long as you want.
When you’re feeling better, gently turn around your negative thought to a positive one. As you do this more and more, those negative beliefs that you have about love will be replaced by positive ones. Once you get used to this, you will find that it is no harder to think a positive thought than a negative one.
I am in no way a recognized expert in the field of love and relationships. Now that you have gotten an idea of what you need to do to attract the love of your life, I would ask you to listen to the free Arielle Ford and Claire Zammit’s Attract Your Soulmate webinar. Claire and Arielle have been called the go-to experts for women searching for their soulmate, although if you are a man who believes in the idea of soulmates I would encourage you to attend as well. Before you join the webinar, read my introduction here first: Attract Your Soulmate webinar
On to Part 4!
So what do you think of Arielle and Claire’s webinar? This is the end of the third part of my “Love Series”. I hope you’ve enjoyed it and if you think that it’s good enough, kindly share it with your family and friends! If you have any questions or comments regarding today’s topic, just leave them below and I’ll get back to you ASAP.
Read the next part here: Love Series #4 – How Can I Make My Relationship Work?